2019 in Review

Gabe and Shannon get married – Fort Collins Temple April 19, 2019

Zach’s mission call to Tahiti (April) and MTC August 21, 2019

Zandra and Zach accepted into BYUH and BYU

Zach and Zandra graduate high school

Sam graduates middle school

Josh HEFY – Paraguay

Morocco March 2019

This is Us

Pho family dates

Sushi dates

Reggie gets walked

Marvellous Mrs. Maisel

YLC – Sam and Josh

Zandra starts BYU H

Oahu exploring

Gabe’s internship in Houston

Soccer, soccer, soccer

Camp counsellors

Friend advice drives

Nauvoo

Maui with Gabe and Shannon

Tuesday night youth activities

Fortnite

Netflix

Cancun timeshare

Collingwood weekend

Wasaga beach

Nightly walks

FaceTime and Google hangout calls

Fasting

Traditions

Two hour church

Seminary

ACT

Studying

Soccer tournaments

Soccer reffing

Auxing in the car

YM camp

Dairy Queen

Dolce gelato

Birthday celebrations

Lifecoach school

CTFAR

Booking travel (burnout)

Girl’s weekend Orlando

Movies

Mission shopping

Packing!

Sam moving rooms

Tiny Eye

Skype calls

Temple with Gabe/Shannon and Zach

Gran’s 80th in Montreal (with broken pelvis)

Rob business trips: Germany, NY, Vegas, BC

Skiing

Blogging

Rob’s Christmas Eve Poem 2019

Another year past and it’s been a blast.
It seems every year is going too fast!

But at last it’s here the time for Christmas cheer
Even though some of us aren’t so near

So don’t run or hide
It’s the CDF before Christmas eventide!

So how’d it start the end of a decade year
Well sit close and you will soon hear

Well it started with 16 it’s really true Josh
Drivers are you ready? Oh my gosh!

Also a rocky start with Gran doing an ice storm dance
80 years young so we celebrated with some hospital parlance

Then the March break was upon us the vacation clock went tock
We were heading on a whirlwind visit to Maroque

Without much effort and with Tajeen and bread servers that were sus!
It was Ali’s crazy rolling sleeping bus!

Through the hills and desert we made our way
Even though poor Leah snake charmers and shepherds didn’t pay

Well guided and planned out by the traveller guru of the fam
We hit Casablanca – “Play it again Sam!”

But truth be told we mosqued it there, photos and silliness, we were the western family with glam!!

Leaving behind bristling markets and so much busy sound
Before we knew it we were Toronto bound

We had graduations almost too many to surmount
High school and middle school and birthdays to count.

Zandra B 18 and able to vote!
So smart and beautiful we certainly had to gloat

But wait hold on we missed a few things!
Somethings that involved a calling and rings!

With a glance and moment we all held our breath for one little sweetie!
Alas he’s got called to the islands of Tahiti!

So we celebrated and cheered for an adventure to begin
Then it was off for Gabe to seal Shannon’s heart with a grin and a Colorado Inn!!

It was a wedding so fine with guest from far and wide
We all looked upon Gabe and Shannon with glowing pride

Then it was back to some birthdays to get ready for summer
Gabe, Sam and Zach all leapt another number

There was prom and the like with suits and gowns all aglow
Soon all would be off to wherever they may go

And Zu and Zach we couldn’t wait to tell you too
That each would be off to BYU!

Oh and don’t forget as these celebrations were at play
Josh was on his way to Paraguay

His dancing was pretty sick while laying some Paraguayan brick

You see it’s hard trying to keep up with this clan
But rest assured it all happens within Meski’s plan

Speaking of plans and packing galore
Poor Leah couldn’t think of packing any more!

Shampoo and vitamins and so much to squeeze in; please sit
She made the marine corp look like an amateur outfit

And so it was time to get two on a plane
To carry them away to places untame!

Zach went to the airport with Leah and friends. Nerves afray some tummies growl
Oh my there was even a cry towel!

Then it was Zandra to Hawaii to work and play
It was so nice we decided to stay and soak a bit in an oceanic bay

With Gabe and Shannon with us so nice, we had cleared the summer hurdles and swam with sea turtles

It hasn’t been easy and some would say hard
But the truth of it all is we made it through well
In fact I’d say we did pretty swell

Oh an to regain some sanity and help us go from pale to so so
Leah and I jetted of the Mexico!

So with Christmas here and down a bit on the crew
The nativity play just had to make due

So with no snow on the ground Saint Nick’s sleigh will certainly stick
But hey it’s no worry we can just help him eat til we’re a little sick

Love and joy is our blessing and present to cherish
Best of all in this year’s talk there were none to embarrass

So with love and warmth in our hearts let’s bring in the holiday cheer
And get ready to celebrate another New Year!

Christmas Eve and Day

It was a very different Christmas Eve and Day.

We had Gabe and Shannon on FaceTime for our Christmas Eve program, and then all talked to Zach on Christmas Eve. (Rob and I also talked to him on Christmas Day)

We had to make do and everyone had to change things up and take on multiple roles:

Rob read us his Christmas poem:

And then the kids waited to hear the little bell and head on down to open presents:

I didn’t get any pictures of us eating because Zach had called so we were on with him while we ate!

We played a game after, and then watched Mr. Krueger’s Christmas

The next morning we weren’t up too early – but the kids did their Santa gifts and stockings:

We had a nice breakfast and took some fun photos:

The kids then all left to be with their other parents.

Rob and I headed out to spend some time with his Mom.

We then made it back and had a lonnnnnggggg talk with Zach and it was the best! He has been really struggling and feeling terrible, so having the chance to just talk to us I think was really helpful. And – Christmas miracle – he got his Christmas package on Christmas morning!!! He was excited to get all the things for his stocking (I wish I had sent him more things though!) and his Santa hat which he wore for a good chunk of our call! As soon as I saw the hat – I knew he had received the package!! I was so grateful! We haven’t seen him smile like this in a while:)

It made for a great end of a different Christmas. I think the next few Christmases will be a bit of an adjustment….

Christmas traditions cont’d

The Tuesday after Zandra got home, we got our new jammies and headed out to deliver our cookies and tour some neighbourhoods to see the lights:

We had our yearly visit with good friends:

Adam got his yearly gingerbread guy with some funny placed candies that make him laugh every year, lol:

We then took a really nice long walk the following Sunday in the Brickworks:

Meanwhile, Gabe and Shannon were having their own fun:

Zach set up his Christmas decor in Tahiti – no Christmas package yet and the poor guy srtuggling with getting the Dengue Fever:( We need some Christmas miracles. (I’m not always putting stuff about his mission here because I’ve got a whole mission blog for him if you want to get more details and photos at zachfioretahitimission.bogspot.com)

Rob and I had our pre-Christmas date to Nathan Phillips Square and then to Ki:

I forgot to include a picture of Sam at our ward (congregation) Christmas party:

The holiday traditions getting all wrapped up….

Zandra’s Home!

In the middle of December – oh happy day – Zandra flew home from BYU- Hawaii after having a fantastic first semester (and to throw in a full brag – heading back with a full academic scholarship for her winter semester!)

It was a red eye flight so the poor girl was exhausted but she was all smiles:

Reggie was excited to see her:

She was a champ and went to church with us (and said farewell to our new Tahitian missionary friend who who loved (and who Zach had met in the MTC)

We went to see Grammie for a Christmas lunch

Then we came home and decorated some cookies:

So good to have her home for a bit!

December Traditions

It has been such a different Christmas this year – but we managed to keep up with most of our traditions which I thought I’d better document!

Josh and I went shopping

Then we went and picked our tree:

We got decorating:

We went to the Christmas market:

Our quote wall (sadly so small this year. so much going on!!) and the 12 days of Christmas we are doing:

More to come…

12 Days of Christmas – Day 12

“On the twelfth day of Christmas my Saviour gave to me”:

ETERNAL LIFE:

 Moroni 7:41  “And what is it that ye shall ahope for? Behold I say unto you that ye shall have bhope through the atonement of Christ and the power of his resurrection, to be raised unto life ceternal, and this because of your faith in him according to the promise.”

2 Nephi 1:15: “But behold, the Lord hath aredeemed my soul from hell; I have beheld his bglory, and I am encircled about eternally in the carms of his dlove.”

My extra scriptures:

Doctrine and Covenants 6:7Seek not for riches but for wisdom, and behold, the mysteriesof God shall be unfolded unto you, and then shall you be made rich. Behold, he that hath eternal life is rich.


Doctrine and Covenants 59:23But learn that he who doeth the works of righteousness shall receive his reward, even peace in this world, and eternal life in the world to come.


3 Nephi 15:9Behold, I am the law, and the light. Look unto me, and endure to the end, and ye shall live; for unto him that endureth to the end will I give eternal life.

Shannon’s extra scriptures:

Moses 1:39 For behold, this is my awork and my bglory—to bring to pass the cimmortality and deternal elife of man.

D&C 88:4 This Comforter is the apromise which I give unto you of beternal life, even the cglory of the celestial kingdom;

Moroni 7:41 And what is it that ye shall ahope for? Behold I say unto you that ye shall have bhope through the atonement of Christ and the power of his resurrection, to be raised unto life ceternal, and this because of your faith in him according to the promise.

12 Days of Christmas – Day 11

“On the eleventh day of Christmas my Saviour gave to me”:

LOVE

 Romans 8:38-39

“For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,

Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to aseparate us from the blove of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

My extra scriptures

John 15:13Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.


1 Nephi 19:9: And the world, because of their iniquity, shall judge him to be a thing of naught; wherefore they scourge him, and he suffereth it; and they smite him, and he suffereth it. Yea, they spit upon him, and he suffereth it, because of his loving kindness and his long-suffering towards the children of men


Mosiah 4:15But ye will teach them to walk in the ways of truth and soberness; ye will teach them to love one another, and to serve one another.

Shannon’s Extra Scriptures:

Leviticus 19:18 Thou shalt not aavenge, nor bear any bgrudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt clove thy dneighbour as thyself: I am the Lord.

John 3:16 For aGod so bloved the cworld, that he dgave his eonlybegotten fSon, that whosoever gbelieveth in him should not perish, but have heverlasting ilife.

2 Corinthians 13:11: 11 Finally, brethren, farewell. Be aperfect, be of good comfort, be of bone cmind, live in dpeace; and the God of elove and peace shall be with you.

12 Days of Christmas – Day 10

“On the tenth day of Christmas my Saviour gave to me”:

STRENGTH

 2 Timothy 4:17:

“Notwithstanding the aLord stood with me, and strengthened me; that by me the preaching might be fully known, and that all the Gentiles might hear: and I was delivered out of the mouth of the lion.”

Isaiah 40:31
“But they that await upon the Lord shall brenewtheircstrength; they shall mount up with wings as deagles; they shall erun, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”

Gabe’s extra scriptures:

Revelation 12:10 – And I heard a loud voice saying in heaven, Now is come salvation, and strength, and the kingdom of our God, and the power of his Christ: for the accuser of our brethren is cast down, which accused them before our God day and night.

Romans 5:6 – For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

Mark 12:30 – And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.

My extra scriptures;

2 Corinthians 12:9 ​And he said unto me, My ​​​grace​ is sufficient for thee: for my ​​​strength​ ​​is made perfect in ​​​weakness​. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may ​​​rest​ upon me.

Alma 26:12 Yea, I know that I am ​​​nothing​; as to my strength I am weak; therefore I will ​​​not​ boast of myself, but I will ​​​boast​ of my God, for in his ​​​strength​ I can do all ​​​things​; yea, behold, many mighty miracles we have wrought in this land, for which we will praise his name forever.

Moses 1:20 ​And it came to pass that Moses began to ​​​fear​ exceedingly; and as he began to fear, he saw the bitterness of ​​​hell​. Nevertheless, ​​​calling​ upon God, he received ​​​strength​, and he commanded, saying: Depart from me, Satan, for this one God only will I worship, which is the God of ​​​glory​.

Zandra’s extra scriptures:

2 Samual 22:33 God ​is​ my ​​​strength​ ​and​ ​​​power​: and he maketh my way ​​​perfect​.

Psalm 29:11​​ Lord​​ will give ​​​strength​ unto his people; the ​​Lord​​ will bless his people with ​​​peace​.

2 Corinthians 12:9 (repeat)

Zach’s extra scriptures

1 Nephi 7:17 But it came to pass that I prayed unto the Lord, saying: O Lord, according to my faith which is in thee, wilt thou deliver me from the hands of my brethren; yea, even give me astrengththat I may bburst these bands with which I am bound.

Alma 26:12 Yea, I know that I am anothing; as to my strength I am weak; therefore I will bnot boast of myself, but I will cboast of my God, for in his dstrength I can do all ethings; yea, behold, many mighty miracles we have wrought in this land, for which we will praise his name forever.

D&C 84:88 And whoso areceiveth you, there I will be also, for I will go bbefore your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left, and my cSpirit shall be in your hearts, and mine dangels round about you, to bear you up.

12 Days of Christmas – Day 9

“On the ninth day of Christmas my Saviour gave to me” :

COMFORT

 Isaiah 49:13″aSing, O heavens; and be joyful, O earth; and break forth into bsinging, O mountains: for the Lord hath ccomforted his people, and will have dmercy upon his eafflicted.”

Gabe’s extra scriptures:

John 14:18 – I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.

Romans 15:4 – For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.

Isaiah 51:3 – For the Lord shall comfort Zion: he will comfort all her waste places; and he will make her wilderness like Eden, and her desert like the garden of the Lord; joy and gladness shall be found therein, thanksgiving, and the voice of melody.

Shannon’s extra scriptures

Matthew 11:28-30 Come​ unto me, all ​ye​ that ​​​labour​ and are heavy laden, and I will give you ​​​rest​.
​​​29 ​Take my ​​​yoke​ upon you, and ​​​learn​ of me; for I am ​​​meek​ and ​​​lowly​ in ​​​heart​: and ye shall find ​​​rest​ unto your souls.
​​​30 ​For my yoke ​is​ ​​​easy​, and my burden is light.

3 Nephi 9:13-14 O all ye that are ​​​spared​ because ye were more ​​​righteous​ than they, will ye not now return unto me, and repent of your sins, and be converted, that I may ​​​heal​ you?
​​​14 ​Yea, verily I say unto you, if ye will ​​​come​ unto me ye shall have ​​​eternal life​. Behold, mine ​​​arm​ of mercy is extended towards you, and whosoever will come, him will I receive; and blessed are those who come unto me.

My extra scriptures:

Matthew 5:4 Blessed ​are​ they that ​​​mourn​: for they shall be ​​​comforted​.

D&C 121:7 My son, ​​​peace​ be unto thy soul; thine ​​​adversity​ and thine afflictions shall be but a ​​​small​ moment;

Psalm 18:2 The ​​Lord​​ ​is​ my ​​​rock​, and my ​​​fortress​, and my deliverer; my God, my ​​​strength​, in whom I will ​​​trust​; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, ​and​ my high tower.

I find Scriptures about comfort so powerful. Who does not need comfort at some time in their life? There are so many times when you feel you just can’t go on, and then there is that small comfort – sometimes in the form of someone else, sometimes in the form of a thought, or sometimes it’s a feeling of warmth or even a physical sensation where you can feel the arms of angels comforting you.

Sam’s extra:

John 16: 7 Neverthelss I tell you the truth; it is expedient for you that I go away; for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I depart, I will send him unto you.

Josh’ s extra:

Mosiah 24:15 The Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord.

Rob’s extra:

Jacob 3:1 But behold, I, Jacob, would speak unto you that are pure in heart. Look unto God with firmness of mind, and ​​​pray​ unto him with exceeding faith, and he will ​​​console​ you in your ​​​afflictions​

D&C 128: 21 ​And again, the voice of God in the chamber of old ​​​Father Whitmer​, in Fayette, Seneca county, and at sundry times, and in divers places through all the travels and tribulations of this Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints! And the voice of Michael, the archangel; the voice of ​​​Gabriel​, and of Raphael, and of divers ​​​angels​, from Michael or ​​​Adam​ down to the present time, all declaring their ​​​dispensation​, their rights, their ​​​keys​, their honors, their majesty and glory, and the power of their priesthood; giving line upon line, ​​​precept​ upon precept; here a little, and there a little; giving us consolation by holding forth that which is to come, confirming our ​​​hope​!

John  14:16 And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever;
17 Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.
18 I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.

Zandra’s extra scriptures

Isaiah 49:13​​​​​ Sing​, O heavens; and be joyful, O earth; and break forth into ​​​singing​, O mountains: for the ​​Lord​​ hath ​​​comforted​ his people, and will have ​​​mercy​ upon his ​​​afflicted​.

D&C 50:14 To preach my gospel by the ​​​Spirit​, even the ​​​Comforter​ which was sent forth to teach the truth.

D&C 79:2 And I will send upon him the ​​​Comforter​, which shall teach him the truth and the ​​​way​ whither he shall go;

These scriptures testify to me that the Holy Ghost is always here to comfort us and guide us through our hard times. We need to believe. The Holy Ghost can also teach us and others around us. 

Sam’s extra scriptures

2 Corinthians 1: 3 Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;

2 Corinthians 7:6 Nevertheless God, that comforteth those that are cast down, comforted us by the coming of Titus

2 Nephi 8:3 For the Lord shall comfort Zion, he will comfort all her waste places; and he will make her wilderness like Eden, and her desert like the garden of the Lord. Joy and gladness shall be found therein, thanksgiving and the voice of melody

Zach’s extra scriptures

Alma 26:27 Now when our hearts were depressed, and we were about to aturn back, behold, the Lord bcomforted us, and said: Go amongst thy brethren, the Lamanites, and bear with cpatiencethine dafflictions, and I will give unto you success.

John 14:18 (repeat)

D&C 121:7-10 My son, apeace be unto thy soul; thine badversity and thine afflictions shall be but a csmall moment; And then, if thou aendure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph over all thy bfoes. Thy afriends do stand by thee, and they shall hail thee again with warm hearts and friendly hands. 10 Thou art not yet as Job; thy afriends do not contend against thee, neither charge thee with transgression, as they did Job.