Quote of the Week

I love it when quotes just come naturally – or from the kids.

When kids think of something on their own, they do OWN it and it really sticks.

Although, they didn’t think of this one on their own, we laughed so much about it, and then they requested it to be “quote of the week” this week, so I know it will stick a bit more. And it’s an oldie, but goodie.

Here’s a little background story about how it came to be quote of the week:

I was trying to squeeze in a little “teaching moment” one morning.

We were summarizing what we had just read, and I was sharing (they might say “lecturing”) with them how history always repeats itself and we actually do benefit from learning from history.

So, I quoted:

“Wise people learn from their mistakes. Wiser people learn from other people’s mistakes”.

There. Perfect little way to sneak in a good quote. Good piece of advice for you kids – so learn from me.

Then Zach piped in:

“Wiser-er people don’t make mistakes”.

Touche, my boy. Touche.

We all laughed at that. So, that is our quote:

“Wise people learn from their mistakes. Wiser people learn from other people’s mistakes. Wiser-er people don’t make mistakes”.

Photo Booth Day

We decided this Sunday was PhotoBooth Day. It was on our bucket list that we made here.

The kids collected a few different accessories, and then posed away!

I made some photo strips for them like this (just regular poses). Here’s a few samples:

Then, some funny poses:

Then, them posing together in crazy ways:

Here’s some collages of all the fun pictures (one for each of them:)

Of course, we joined the fun. Wish we had taken some together – next time!

(I love this last photo of Rob…sums up how he felt at the end of all this:))AND…I don’t know why there are so many more of me than him!!! I guess I could have brushed my hair too. Ahh well, it was a Sunday afternoon….

Recipe: Northern Italian Spaghetti (NIS)

When I was little, I had a very best friend. I talked about her here.

Often we would have dinner at each other’s houses. I loved eating at her house, especially when they had Northern Italian Spaghetti. It was my favorite meal.

I lost track of my friend Jennie for years, but thought often of her and the Northern Italian Spaghetti! I tried to find recipes online to mimic it – but none could.

Then Facebook came along. If Facebook does nothing else in my life, it reunited me with Jennie. And Northern Italian Spaghetti. Our first exchange went something like this: “Oh my gosh! It’s been years! How are you? Can I have the recipe for Northern Italian Spaghetti”?

And ever since, it has been a staple. We call it “NIS” for short around here. We have made some alterations – as the cream required in it hurts my tummy and Zach’s as well. Not as good with 2% milk – but still tasty. There is also supposed to be chicken livers in it – but that’s never an option round here (I’m not sure I knew about those when I was eating it as a kid either!). I also substitute apple juice for wine since I don’t have wine lying around the house. So in fact, I probably have destroyed the real recipe, but it is still darn tasty!

Northern Italian Spaghetti Sauce

1 cup chopped onion
½ cup chopped celery
½ cup chopped carrots
10 slices bacon, cooked until crisp, chopped small

Combine bacon, onions, celery, carrots and cook in a bit of oil until soft. Remove from stove and set aside.

1 package ground beef (extra lean)
1 package porc

Cook meat together. Drain well.

½ cup white wine (or apple juice can work too)

Add juice/wine to meat and let boil. Add bacon and cooked veggies to this mixture.

2 cups beef broth or 1 10 oz can consommé undiluted.
1 can tomato paste

Add broth and tomato paste to meat, bacon and veggie mixture. Bring to boil. Reduce to low.

1 cup heavy cream (or any kind of milk)

When almost ready to serve, add 1 cup heavy cream/milk.

Serve over your favorite pasta. Spaghettini is my preference.

One cute side note: When I was cutting the vegetables up for this meal, Zach came in to ask me a question about his homework. He started to ask me, then stopped and said “Oh, be careful Mom, that’s a sharp knife”:)

Best 10’s : Anti-procrastination Tips

In my job, I get to share a lot of “tips” with people: memory tips, study tips, reading tips, brainstorming tips, speaking tips, social tips etc. (you get the point).

Some of the tips I find really easy to share, because I actually live by them.

Others are a challenge for me, just as they are for my clients.

However, I do find that trying to follow these “tips” is often quite helpful.

Thought I’d share 10 tips to help you stop procrastinating! (I’m actually pretty decent with this)!

1. “You touch it, You do it”.
This is probably the biggest timesaver ever AND best way to avoid procrastination. I say it often in my house. Don’t bother shuffling something around the room. Just DO IT!! When you get the mail, recycle out the junk, put the bills in the “bills spot” (more on this later), display the cards. When you get an email that needs a two second response – write a two second response! If something is sitting on the table that needs putting away – put it away! Hang up your clothes or put them in the hamper! Put the dishes in the dishwasher rather than the sink. It honestly takes an extra 10 seconds to actually do what you need to do than to do something else with it.

2. Have a home for everything
When things have a “home”, they get done. I may not have time to do everything right away – but I have time to put them in their “home” where they wait to get done! I have a little basket in my office called my “To do basket”. That is where all the bills get put, or papers/receipts to file, or forms to complete. I go through the box thoroughly once a month (that works for me to pay all the bills on time:). If it can’t wait for the whole month, then I rely on “you touch it you do it” and just do what needs doing right then and there (eg. sign a school form).

3. Make a list
If it’s written down, the burden is then off your memory to remember to get it done. Also, if it is written down, you are more accountable to yourself to get it done!

4. Break things down in small chunks
Some tasks are overwhelming, but everything can be broken down into tiny steps. Take a few minutes to break large tasks into smaller steps, and then tackle one step at a time.

5. 10 minute blitz
If you need to feel like you always accomplish something, make a list of jobs that need doing that will take 10 minutes or less. Then, tackle a job a day! Take 10 minutes and go for it. You will be amazed at what a committed 10 minutes can accompish!

6. Set time limits
Sometimes a task feels like it is neverending, and it is not realistic to get it accomplished in one, or even two sittings. So, assign yourself an amount of time to get the task done. “I will have this kitchen cleaned in 15 minutes”. “I will have 15 minutes to answer my emails this morning”. Just set a timer for as much time as you can handle, and work for that time. You will feel good at having worked on the task – even if it does not get completely done (although you will be surprised at how many things get done when you are racing the clock!)

7. Finish something before you start something else.
Sometimes we think multi tasking is more efficient. However, sometimes it is not and it can be discouraging to have a whole bunch of unfinished business surrounding you. So, pick one task, and work it to completion.

8. Do hard things first
Get the hard stuff over with at the beginning, leave the easy stuff for when you are running low on steam.

9. Reward yourself
Rewards can be motivating – but only if they really are a reward! Choose something small that you love and give it to yourself ONLY if you get something done (i.e. it can be crossed off your list).

10. Stop planning and just start doing
Sometimes we spend so much time planning and anticipating, that we never get to the doing! Don’t over think or over plan. Just do it. Jump right in. With both feet.

Flat line

I heard about this cool new App a few weeks ago called “Sleep Cycle”. It is supposed to keep track of how well you are sleeping: when you are in a deep sleep, when you are just asleep and when you are awake.

Rob and I have been having a bit of fun with this app – seeing who is a better sleeper:) (I really don’t know where my boys get their competitive streak from!). What we have both learned is that we are not great sleepers.

Zach and Josh wanted to join in and get this App too. They have been using it a couple of nights now.

Rob had left for work this morning before any of us were up, and before Josh showed me his graph of his sleep:

What a crazy deep sleep he was in! I’d never seen anything like that on any of the other graphs!

So, I sent Rob a text that said:

“We think Josh died last night between 3-6 am. He was almost a complete flat line”.

Ok. I guess I should have put the text in a bit more of a context for him.

He reads, “We think Josh died last night….” and starts panicking.

Luckily, he’s a smart guy and figured it out:)

He texted me back “Your text freaked me out at first!!!!”.

Ooops. Goes to show how important context is:)

Boy though, is that kid a sleeper or what??

Quote of the Week

“The bad news is time flies – the good news is you’re the pilot”.
Michael Altshuler

I hear myself commenting so much about how time flies.

Every year I make each of the kids a photo album of all the pictures of them from the previous year -it’s their Valentine’s present. So in the month of January I am busy looking at all the photos of the past year and then I get all nostalgic and pull out all the albums of previous years and am always truly amazed at how BIG everyone is getting! I honestly shake my head and think “where did the time go”. I am constantly reminded that “the days are long but the years are short” (one of my all time favorite quotes).

Feeling all teary and nostalgic, I then remind myself that the present is tomorrow’s past, so soon enough I will be looking back on THESE days. This then makes me put away whatever I am doing, and go enjoy the present and soak in all the precious moments. Time may go by quickly, but I am in full control over whether I waste my time or use up every ounce of it in the way that I want.

So that’s what I’m going to do right now.

Enjoy piloting your time!

Let’s Talk Money

It’s been a little while since I have talked about money!

Way back here I talked about how I wanted to give my kids some basic tips about how to manage their money; so they can learn while they are young!

We’ve talked a lot with them about debt; i.e. not getting into it. Spend within your means, save up for what you want, don’t buy on credit etc.

I’ve said some points a few times already in past posts, but some points warrant a bit of repetition since they are so important! Just some beginner, basic stuff:

For starters, get a credit card.

And, get a credit card while you are a student.

Why?

You need to build up your credit history, and the only way to do that is to have credit in YOUR name. You don’t need a big limit on the card, just take the minimum. Using this low limit responsibly will help you build your credit – which you need for the future.

It is also much easier to get a card when you are a student as they give you “student status”. Once you are no longer a student, it is harder to get one.

Having a credit card is good for emergencies in general I think and everyone should have their own. I don’t think you should even be travelling without having a card! So you should be prepared with one.

And for goodness sake, make sure you have a card in your OWN name (not just a second card on someone else’s account). That is the ONLY way to build up YOUR credit history. If you have a secondary card in your spouse’s name – it’s your spouse who builds the credit – not you!

I know you may be in the “nothing would ever happen to me camp”, but I have seen so many people (and sorry – it is often women) end up in situations where they don’t have credit in their name, and end up needing to have someone co-sign for them if they need a loan. Don’t forget, having your name on the mortgage is also not enough to build up your own credit….

A final note, for all my kiddos, as you get older and get in relationships, please please please understand how your personal household finances work. Don’t be one of those men or women who is clueless as to their household finances and leave everything up to their spouse to figure out. If you don’t want to be the one in charge of them, fine. But PLEASE at least understand what is going on!!!

Recipe: Mexican Chili

In our house, I keep a little blackboard with a running list of our meals for the next two weeks. It helps me with planning, and I don’t always have to answer the constant question: “What’s for dinner?” thirty two thousand times.

However, sometimes, things get erased or changed. Someone thought it would be funny one day to change “Chili” to “Sam”; “Mexican Sam”. It was quite funny (even Sam thought so). To this day, that is how we refer to this yummy, simple meal.

Mexican Chili

1 pack ground beef
1 can kidney beans, drained and rinsed
1 can romano beans, drained and rinsed
1 can corn, drained
1 can diced or crushed tomatoes
1 cup salsa
1 package taco seasoning
1.5 cups grated cheese
Sour cream

Cook ground beef. Drain fat. Add tomatoes. Stir and cook on medium. Add beans, corn, taco seasoning and 1 cup water. Add salsa. Add salt and pepper. Bring to boil and then turn to low to simmer.

Serve with grated cheese, on top and a dollop of sour cream. Can serve with Tostitos chips or corn chips to dip.